My mom--known as Mimi to her grandkids and great-grandkids--came over to join the chaos one day, and we were able to get this photo of four generations: Mimi, me, my youngest son, and his baby girl. My mom will be 88 years young in September; doesn't she look amazing?
On Independence Day, our whole gang went over to the neighborhood where my husband grew up and where his family still has a house on the lake (it's just a little over three miles down the road from Oyster Haven), to participate in the annual Fourth of July parade. Many of my husband's siblings and their families were there, too, forming quite a lengthy string of Pearls. Everyone was dressed as patriotically as can be. Here are two of our little granddaughters all gussied up to march in the parade. They are practically neighbors in VA, two weeks apart in age and besties--and also very much a pair of miniature fashionistas.
My boys are always good for humorous attire on the Fourth--or anytime, actually. Here are the two youngest, #'s 4 and 5. I heart them big time.
One of our wee grandsons, all decked out in Stars and Stripes, was pretty worn out from all the excitement before the parade even started.
After the parade, we headed back to Oyster Haven for a hamburger-and-hot dog cookout and more beach time. And then as the sun set, we got ready to watch the spectacular fireworks show that our neighbors put on every year. How wonderful that we only have to go to the edge of our yard to see it!
I have been incredibly overtired since our week ended. I've been taking naps every day--which is so unlike me. I know part of it is that it was an extremely tiring week. I mean, we had 26 people staying in a house that sleeps 13 comfortably (13 is the maximum number of guests we allow for our Vrbo renters). And only 10 of those 26 people were adults. So there was a lot going on: a lot of noise; a lot of meal preparation, serving, and cleanup; a lot of playing lifeguard down at the water's edge (or in the water!); a lot of getting up early with little peeps.
So yes, I'm tired. But I also think I'm just feeling a little low, now that my people are all gone. I love having them gathered all together so, so much--in spite of the craziness of it. We look forward to that week at Oyster Haven all year, and it comes and goes so quickly. I'm sure I'll get over this blah feeling soon, though, once I've really caught up on my rest.
Luckily, my husband and I like each other. I mean, we really like each other. And so we'll enjoy the rest of the summer here together, attending daily Mass, saying our Rosaries out on the boat, visiting with my mom and other relatives who are still in the area, enjoying the lake. And making up the beds on weekend turnover days at Oyster Haven (as well as keeping an eye on the quality of our cleaners' work! We might be a tad OCD about our beloved lake house...).
Our 3-and-a-half-year old granddaughter who lives near us in VA (the one in the red dress, floppy hat, and sunglasses in the above photo) was sitting with me one day at Oyster Haven, bemoaning the fact that we are going to be at the lake for the rest of the summer. "When will you go back to your real house, where you belong?" she asked. Oh my heart! Isn't it wonderful to be loved and missed like that?
So yes, we do belong in VA. Most of the time. But right now, it feels right to be here with just my guy, living the lake life that's in his blood. We'll be back to our "real house" soon enough.
