We had another red letter day in the Pearl family yesterday, when our second-oldest son's firstborn (who was named after him, and thereby has the handle "Junior" here at the blog) made his First Holy Communion.
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Don't you love this idea?! They can take a picture of him holding this picture when he gets confirmed; and then holding the Confirmation picture when he gets married (or ordained!). |
Junior is the oldest of five boys (with a tiny sister in Heaven), and he is the most patient, caring, loving big brother imaginable. I have watched him in action with the younger ones, and he will definitely roughhouse and wrestle with them because, well...they're BOYS (and I don't care what people say about the two sexes being just alike, without society's interference; boys love--and need!--to roughhouse! It's in their nature and it's good for them). But he never goes overboard and always seems to be aware of his superior size and strength; he instinctively holds back just enough that it's still fun, but not dangerous. Junior is a leader and the younger brothers all look up to him.
This sweet young fella might be all boy (active and sports-obsessed and competitive, and not at all averse to getting dirty), but he also has such a tender heart. We were with him and his brothers at their house not quite a year ago, when the call came from the hospital that baby #5 was another boy. His eyes immediately filled with tears--not because he minded having another brother in the family, but because he wanted his sister Monica (who passed away in utero in 2019, but is still very much a remembered and beloved member of his family) to have a sister. It took lots of gentle encouragement from everyone who loves him to convince him that Monica would be just as thrilled with another brother as she would have been with a sister. He kills me, that kid.
I think of sweet Monica, who is no doubt a tiny saint in Heaven, looking down on her ragamuffin crew of little men and loving them fiercely. Junior and his four brothers have a mighty intercessor and protector up there. And when the occasion calls for it, they sure do clean up nicely. She must have been very proud of them yesterday.
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Oh sweet boy! Congratulations!! How proud everyone is of you. May you always love Jesus and receive him with the reverence of your first time!!
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ReplyDeleteSuch a handsome boy..... actually they are all so cute.
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